Women online now

Sometimes men do not take into consideration very important things when they decide to search for a good wife abroad. These are some of them:

1. Men tend to pay too much attention to the photos on the site. They don’t realize that those photos are chosen and downloaded by the rusian women themselves and of course they try to look as beautiful as it’s possible on the pictures. So sometimes those pictures look as if taken from fashion magazines. Statistics shows that 80% of messages are sent to only those 20% with attractive photos. That’s what should be thought over.

That’s really a pity that the results of the compatibility analysis don’t interest men as much as photos. It’s essential to remember that you are searching for a real woman, not just a beautiful picture. It’s no good at all to live with a perfect-looking lady who has no interest in you except for an opportunity to shout and argue from time to time.

Not long time ago I happened to ask a Spanish man of his experience in finding a single Russian woman. This man was not satisfied with his acquaintances at all as mostly all the girls turned out to nothing special when he learned them closer. The beautiful perfect images he saw on the pictures disappeared and nothing was left but disappointment.

He remembers the time he strolled along the streets of saint-Petersburg looking around and noticing lots of breathtaking beautiful russian girls. He saw them smile, laugh, sing, he saw them being happy with their friends and enjoying their lives. Blondes and brunettes, tall and short, they were fascinating, energetic and so attractive! Why then does it happen so that the Russian women he meets turn out to be something extremely different? He still remembers those boring tired faces, sad eyes, disappointing state of figure and skin… What’s the problem? It’s a great mistake of men that they don’t realize that those girls on the streets are not snowed under amounts of work and daily routine. They are mainly students having a good time of their lives. Perhaps those pretty russian girls do not have to work at all as they have somebody who can do it for them. Unlike those tired ones who do all to care for their children, pay for living and make both ends meet. What if you try to imagine the changes in such a woman if she doesn’t have to work and gets time for herself? Yes, of course men prefer youth and beauty. But women from Russia can be strong-willed, not only extremely beautiful.

2. Men make lots of mistakes. The second one is linked to the first as the men have always preferred beauty to everything else. It happens so today that each man wants his Rusian wife to be the object of envy and admiration. So men search for those girls who look beautiful on the pictures. But usually every man wants that perfect Russian lady to love him and to live with him in cozy and peaceful atmosphere.

Usually men cannot understand that those rusian girls who resemble thin and beautiful models do not really need warmth, kindness, love and – what is of most importance – family. For such ladies it is much more important to gain respect, adoration of men. They prefer comfort to feelings, envious looks to tender touches.

The combination of breathtaking beauty, good figure and tendency for coziness and tender relations is too rare today and it would be too idealistic to hope that it could still happen to you. Like in this joke: As the two men were spending their evening by the burning fireplace one of them said thoughtfully: - I never managed to get married. – The second wondered why it was so. – It was my dream to find a completely perfect Rusian lady, - said the first and the second smiled: - Did not you manage to? – Well, I certainly did. But the problem is that I was not that perfect man she expected.

Every joke is nothing more than a joke. And this one is especially sad, but anyway I used to know a man who did act like the hero of this joke. He got registered on several sites during about 10 years but it seems that hasn’t still found his ideal..

3. Some say that choice poisons our life. So it is for some of the men who seem to know no limit. As every person with big choice they cannot just stop having found a nice Rusian woman. The go on and on looking through lots of sites and hoping to meet somebody really special. Sometimes these men just do not understand that they are missing something extremely important. Perhaps missing their happiness.

4. Sometimes men commit an awful mistake – as they register to the sites they prefer not to download their photos there. What are the arguments for placing no image or if placing some – then a photo where nothing is to be distinguished? Some men sincerely believe that appearance is not so important for Rusian women, that choosing by photos is men’s prerogative. They begin writing long letters, describing their hobbies and jobs, their cities and pets, favorite books and movies. Is it so hard to understand that each Russian woman wishes to see whom she’s talking to? That for her everything is important – your blick, your smile… Women do not usually tend to find men looking like models, for them it’s really sufficient to see man’s kindness, friendliness, open-heartedness. There is really no use in showing no photo as you both need not hide anything from each other on the doorway of possible relations. Words are informative and charming, they can make wonderful effect. But much more is gained by a sincere smile. Moreover, many girls get cheated by men with no photos. Why not be safe and confident?

5. It happens so that about 50% of site visitors prefer to wait passively having filled their pages. They hope that the perfect Rusian ladies would just write them themselves. But if you don’t want your happiness to stay aside you should think over the best strategy of behavior. Would a man be successful if he does nothing for his success? No! A dream Rusian girl would never write to you until you decide to do everything to catch her attention. Some girls really think that men should be active in establishing the relations, so they wait for men to do the first step. It’s hard for most women to be the first to write to strangers. So the best way to find a beautiful Rusian girl is to do both: search and be ready to accept.

6. There is one more interesting unproductive way of communicating with girls on the site. Some men prefer to make sure that the chosen Russian girl doesn’t mind to talk to them for several times. These men hit the Rusian girls with amounts of winks, smileys and postcards. Surprisingly they don’t go on to communication after having received enough smileys as an answer. Such a strategy is usually too irritating. That’s no wonder that Russian ladies get tired of such smilefans. Gradually they stop paying attention to that kind of messages and finally forget the unlucky men.

7. Finally we come to a mistake of those men who prefer to find several variants to choose of. Those men consider it not convenient and worthwhile to go to Russia having found only one candidate. They must be aware that Rusian women do not like to wait. Each single Rusian woman needs to be cared for, wishes to be one and only. So if you search for more russian ladies the one already found may forget and wait for you no more. It’s very important to keep single Russian woman interested and not to disappoint them.

What is the reason of Russian girls’ searching for new acquaintances in the Internet? What makes them search for a man from other countries?

In fact lonely women from Russia regard communicating with men on such sites as a possible way to find a husband.

To my mind it’s nothing wrong with the Russian girl if she creates her accounts on different dating sites. It’s just that she’s firmly decided to change her life and share it with somebody. The Russian lady do not know if the site is worthy or not when they first open it – they just do everything they can to finally be happy.

1. It doesn’t really make a difference if the future husband will be Russian or European – it’s just that he may love her and be loved as well.

2. It’s much easier to find a man in Russia, why then do Rusian girls try to find somebody abroad? It’s quite hard in fact to get a good family in the conditions when a woman is a bit more than 30 and all the men prefer younger girls who do not tend to get married. It’s quite hard to have children in Russia as the couples are slightly supported by government. So not many of Russian men agree to have children and family.

3. It happens very seldom that a Russian man turns out to be a good father, while Russian women are commonly loving and caring mothers. That kind of men’s behavior disappoints the Russian ladies and it’s no wonder that they search for something real.

Men from America usually appear to be much more careful and tender in the relations with their children. They would certainly treat the children of a Rissian bride loyally and friendly. If a single Russian woman decides to marry an American she may have no doubts that the atmosphere in her family will be comfortable and pleasant.

4. Lots of beautiful ladies try to just move from Russia as it’s sometimes too hard to live there in comparison with American or European lands. Each girl dreams of stable life with no problems and no thoughts of how to make both ends meet. The Russian women get concerned by the low living standard in their country and try to change their lives leaving for other countries where they have more chances to raise their children and be loved and happy.

5. It often happens so that the Rusian girl get disappointed by unlucky marriages, they stay alone with children and frustrating feeling that life has finished. The Russian dating agencies help them to believe that they can have one more try – and be happy at last. The one who acts firmly and hopes for best gains happiness one day. And the Russian ladies… They just wish to love and be loved.